Romance and all that it encompasses; it must be in the air.
Recently, I’ve heard a slew of conversations
about what women want; guys talking, of course. And it’s usually
laced with hands being thrown up in the air for comedic exaggeration or
sometimes, blind frustration, as if they are painstakingly attempting to
resolve a solution for quantum gravity.
Do you honestly want to know what a woman wants? Can you
handle it? We're all adults here and if this is too adult for you then you shouldn't be concerned with big people things that are real or messy, so go read a crafting blog. OK, here it is.
A woman wants someone who will walk up to her, wind
their fingers into her hair and kiss the stupid right out of her. A woman wants
someone who will see her when she’s happy, when she’s sad and when she’s pissed
off and they will find all of those moments equally adorable.
A woman wants a senseless argument to be ended with your
lips on hers and your arms around her making smooth circles on her back while
you tell her how much you love her and that this is a moment that will pass.
A
woman wants to know that she is enough for you and she wants to know that your
heart stops and starts again when she kisses you back.
A woman wants someone who will tell her to open her eyes
because you want to see how you make her feel just as you slide into her. And a
woman wants to know, without a doubt, that since you found her, no other person
in the world except her, is ever going to have a chance to hear you say that again.
That’s what a woman really wants. This isn’t rocket science.
It’s the same stuff she wanted when she was 15 years old and the world was not
really that complicated.
Not a single one of those things will cost you one thin
dime. What they will cost you is a wide open heart and a willingness to be all
in; to be there through every glorious, steamy, crazy, beautiful, angry,
joyful, tragic and magnificent moment and, it will be worth it.
That’s what a woman wants.
